A Place at the Table for Seniors
With the holiday season approaching, the scent of wood smoke drifts through the air. Kitchens begin to fill with the sounds of simmering pots and laughter. Thanksgiving reminds us that belonging is built not only around food and family, but around the places that hold our memories and connections. For many older adults, the holiday season can be daunting and lonely. Each year, TrueNorth’s Senior Thanksgiving Luncheon embodies a spirit of connection. It brings older adults together for a warm meal, shared stories and a reminder that they are valued members of a caring community.
Continue reading to learn how thoughtful placemaking and community design can help that sense of belonging last well beyond the holiday season.
TrueNorth’s Senior Thanksgiving Luncheon
Each year, TrueNorth hosts a free Senior Thanksgiving Luncheon for low-income seniors in Newaygo County. This cherished tradition brings warmth, fellowship and comfort. It supports those who might otherwise spend the holiday season alone. On the second Tuesday of November, the TrueNorth Service Center fills with laughter and conversation. The familiar aroma of a family-style Thanksgiving meal adds to the warmth. TrueNorth served nearly 300 lunches this year. For many, it’s not only a meal but a reminder that they are seen, valued and part of something larger. Rising food costs and limited access to transportation make gatherings like this essential. They provide vital connection and care, ensuring no one in our community is left behind during a season meant for gratitude and togetherness.
The Meaning of Aging in Place
Many older adults want to remain in their homes and communities as they age, and Michigan is no exception. A report by the State Advisory Council on Aging (SAC) and the Michigan Department of Health and Human Services explains that aging in place depends on thoughtful planning, access to services, safe housing, mobility and connection.
Aging in place is not just about staying in one’s home. It’s about living where one can continue to participate, connect, engage and be valued. As the report notes, “Aging in place is sustaining participation in your daily life in home and community.”
This concept aligns beautifully with the spirit of Thanksgiving. Holiday meals, gatherings, shared memories and rituals of gratitude offer more than food; they reflect belonging, generational continuity and activation of community space. For older adults, it becomes an excellent opportunity to make their home and community more meaningful, accessible and connected.
Designing Holiday Spaces That Welcome Everyone
What does this look like in practice? One model is the caring holiday‐meal approach used by senior services communities. A guide from Grace Village Senior Living suggests practical ways to make Thanksgiving gatherings more senior-friendly. These include making the location accessible, reducing transportation stress, offering healthy food choices mindful of dietary needs and creating comfortable spaces free of mobility hazards.
This is a micro‐version of placemaking, shaping the physical and social environment of a holiday moment to support dignity, participation and joy.
At a larger scale, research from the UCLA Lewis Center for Regional Policy Studies on placemaking for an aging population shows that public spaces, parks and neighborhoods must evolve to support older adults’ well-being. Older adults are often underserved in open space planning, even though they benefit from access to safe, social outdoor places.
When we craft a Thanksgiving gathering at home, we can think the same way: Is the space welcoming? Is there good lighting and safe flooring? Are conversation areas arranged for comfort? Is it easy to move between rooms? Each thoughtful detail becomes an act of inclusion.
Rural Challenges and Opportunities in Newaygo County
In rural areas like Newaygo County, the challenge can be even greater. Many older adults face mobility limitations, transportation barriers or social isolation. As a result, participation in community events can be difficult. A Michigan Medicine study found that one in three older adults in Michigan reported feeling lonely at least some of the time in the past year.
Thanksgiving serves as a moment of reflection and action: how can our homes and communities be places of inclusion for older adults, not just for one meal, but for the years ahead?
Imagine hosting a Thanksgiving in a home that’s been proactively adapted: a clutter-free entryway, grab bars in the bathroom, smooth flooring for walkers, generous lighting and cozy seating. Now imagine that gathering expanding into the neighborhood, perhaps a short walk to a neighbor’s home for dessert, a friendly chat on a park bench or a shared outdoor cider toast under a pavilion.
That’s placemaking at its most heartfelt, where home and neighborhood work together to create connection and dignity.
Belonging at the Table
At this time of year, when gratitude fills the air, belonging becomes especially vital. Older adults carry a wealth of memories, traditions and connections with place. They may feel displaced when neighborhoods change or when homes become harder to manage. A Thanksgiving table, then, becomes more than a meal; it’s a space of memory, identity and hope.
Bringing senior voices into the process, inviting them to plan, decorate or share stories, strengthens that sense of belonging. As Grace Village’s guide suggests, seniors thrive when they are included meaningfully, not simply served. This reflects the essence of placemaking: creating spaces with people, not just for them.
Community as the Gathering Space
Across Newaygo County, this season invites us to reimagine how community spaces can support inclusion. If a senior cannot host at home or travel far, a local hall, church or community center could become the gathering spot. When designed thoughtfully, these places foster connection across generations.
The SAC report emphasizes that housing design, transportation and social connection are all key to aging in place. When a community ensures that its public spaces are accessible with clear signage, wide walkways, good lighting and comfortable seating, it sends a message: you belong here.
Intergenerational Placemaking
Thanksgiving naturally brings generations together. When we intentionally position older adults as storytellers and custodians of tradition, we reinforce their sense of place in the community. A grandparent sharing family history, a senior leading a blessing or a simple neighborhood walk together before dinner these moments weave the social fabric tighter.
In these acts, placemaking becomes more than design; it becomes a lived experience of connection.
Planning for Comfort, Safety and Future Connection
Planning remains essential for both the holiday and long-term aging-in-place. Yet only about half of older adults in Michigan report having made home modifications to support safe aging. According to the University of Michigan’s Institute for Healthcare Policy and Innovation, just 46% of adults aged 65 and older have taken steps to make their home age-friendly, even though 84% expect to remain there for the rest of their lives.
Thanksgiving offers a natural opportunity to begin those conversations gently, through shared activity and observation. Is the lighting bright enough? Are walkways clear? Is the seating sturdy? These practical reflections during the holiday can inspire year-round improvements that help seniors remain safe and independent.
For rural residents, transportation is another vital consideration. Snow removal, driveway access and reliable rides can make or break participation. Hosting at the seniors’ home, when possible, reduces travel stress and keeps them at the center of celebration. This, too, is placemaking: designing the experience around inclusion rather than convenience.
Community Events as Placemaking Opportunities
Small towns have a special opportunity to use public spaces for seasonal gatherings. A Thanksgiving lunch at a library, a potluck at the township hall or an outdoor cider social at a park pavilion can turn isolation into community.
These events create what planners call “third places” spaces beyond home and work, where people naturally connect. For older adults, these spaces are essential for preventing loneliness and sustaining well-being. The SAC report notes social isolation is one of the most significant health risks for Michigan seniors. When we build social and spatial supports into our traditions, we strengthen both community bonds and individual health.
Building the Future, One Table at a Time
As the pumpkin pie is sliced and the table quiets, we might ask our older loved ones: What would make this easier next year? What do you wish for your home or your neighborhood?
At TrueNorth Community Services, those questions inspire action every day. Through programs that provide meals, housing support and community connection, TrueNorth ensures older adults in Newaygo County have the resources and relationships they need to age with dignity and a sense of belonging. Through the Senior Thanksgiving Luncheon along with our year-round outreach, TrueNorth helps strengthen the bonds that make our community feel like home.
For older adults in Newaygo County and beyond: may this season bring warmth, connection and the comfort of knowing they have, and always will have, a place at the table.


