Kathy & Kyrin
Friends for Life
For Kathy and Kyrin, a mentoring match that began three and a half years ago has evolved into something much deeper. They’ve become friends for life.
“The first time I met Kyrin, she said she didn’t know what a mentor was,” Kathy recalls. “I told her I was a friend that could help her in any way she needed, and that’s exactly how our relationship has been.”
For Kyrin, that specific type of friendship was just what she needed. She explains; “it feels amazing to be able to hang out with someone who sees me as more than a kid.”
While acknowledging Kyrin has a close-knit, supportive extended family, Kathy views herself as “the companion that is there to expose her to new activities, listen to anything that might be on her mind and to provide a different perspective.“
Despite a 50-year age difference, the relationship is mutually beneficial. “I love spending time with Kyrin,” Kathy says. “In the same way that she benefits from my perspective on things, I like her fresh perspective too. She’s creative and funny. I like hearing her views on the proper care for horses, and going thrift store shopping with her.”
For Kyrin, time spent talking and listening has had a tangible impact. She credits Kathy with teaching her “how to communicate better with people.”
“Everyone has something to offer a young person,” Kathy says, “and the staff at TrueNorth is there to help if you run into obstacles along the way. Try it!” To learn more about TrueMentors contact Chadwick at (231) 924-0641, ext. 120 or truementors@truenorthservices.